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What is Smoking Seduction? - The phenomenon explained

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Post by Dan on Jul 2, 2017 21:19:05 GMT

What is Smoking Seduction? - The phenomenon explained.



Many people around the world have no idea that smoking seduction exists, and this only appears to a small percentage of people. But the phenomenon is spreading as smoking becomes rarer in society, and smokers are now exclusive and away from the norm. Smoking seduction (often termed Smoking Fetish) is simply the measure by which a person is stimulated by watching someone take pleasure from smoking. It is mostly men who get these feelings, and most women dont.

I found Smoking Cigarettes appealing from a very young age, and before I knew what sex was. One day I happened to be looking through a 'mens' magazine, and turned the page to see a woman holding a cigarette. She wasnt doing anything seductive with it - just holding - but it was enough to make chemicals flow around my body, and I felt strange and hot at the same time, and forcing me to stare at the image. Many years later, I worked in a cafe, where women smoked. I was still quite young, and wondered why my head would melt when I saw a woman smoking in a certain way. It didnt make sense. I didnt smoke and didnt really find it attractive, but I could see how much it enhanced a womans style, and this was impressive.



A Matter of Glamour!


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The elegance of the cigarette goes back to the 1930s, when it became fashionable for the daring screen stars of the day to smoke to keep their weight down. Smoking takes away the appetite, but also provides a sugar rush thanks to all the sugar the add to the tobacco. Smoking became a matter of style, and good fashion went along with an elegant cigarette, perhaps even going so far as to use a holder. By the 1950s and 60's, many famous people not only smoked, but celebrated the fact with long holders. As a fashion accessory, smoking was just the thing to help introduce you to friends and buddies, and gossip, and replaced 'the cooler moment' as the place where only the coolest people hung out. A cigarette completes an image, and also enhances it many times. Ladies who might not seem so daring or attractive suddenly found themselves being offered cigarettes; and discovered the smooth and satisfying feeling which only a cigarette can provide.

This look of satisfaction can be very appealing to a man looking for a lady, and this is enhanced a second time by the art and the style of how she smokes. Every woman has her own style which is unique. Some like to likke puff of smoke before inhaling, some like to drift the smoke, or take a deep drag - like taking a drink - and enjoying the effect. Smoking not only looks great, it also tastes good, and has a soothing effect, so its easy to enjoy the art of smoking without noticing how attractive this can be. Like any dance or performance, a cigarette can be captivating to witness, and it is itself a three act play of a beginning (the lightup), the middle (relaxing), and ending - each being handled in any number of different ways.

The cigarette also symbolises freedom and liberty - the choice to do or not to do. This icon of freedom can be seem in the Torch of Freedom being held aloft by the Statue of Liberty, and the cigarette was used in the early part of the 20th century, by the Womens Liberty and Freedom movement, to enable women to have respect and equal opportunities for the first time. Its this scene of wild freedom, by consuming a natural plant, which can be attractive, and provokes a feeling that the woman is not afraid to try new things.



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Another aspect of this topic, which seems obvious but easily overlooked, is that the focus of the object is the lips and the mouth region. This is the second most sensitive part of the body, and contains many muscles and sences which can feel the slightest tough. To pop a cigarette in the mouth can feel very sensual to a woman, and can feel more so depending on how she smokes it. With more of the filter in her mouth, the cigarette may feel comforting, like a baby with a soother, anything in the mouth can feel soothing. The lips are very attractive to many men ordinarily, so to draw the focus to the lips, and draw the gaze to the lips, is drink, is very similar to looking like something else... see below. The lips can be even more attractive if painted red, and with lip gloss to make them wet. This enhances the delusion and can become mesmerising.

A smoker not only smiles more than a non smoker, due to the pleasant feelings of smoking, but they also pass them around and seem more sociable. So its really a mixture of sensations of seeing a woman being satisfied orally and physically, and daring to enjoy herself.




Psychological Pressures?

Until now I have found it very difficult to talk openly about it. Partly because its a subject most men dont talk about, and also because its not really suitable on a glamour forum like this, but I recently watched a video where a lady was asking why are men attracted to ladies smoking, and so I decided to have a go at answering that question without it being too embarrassing. However, I will have to talk about the human body and the sensual organs, so if this kind of explanation would bother you, I suggest you stop reading now, as the the answer is rather more Freudian, and we know he used to enjoy his long cigars.

People love mirroring each other, in all kinds of ways, and symmetry is appealing. For one thing, the male has a hole at the top of his body, and a 280 degree (pointing upwards) member between the legs. A female has a hole between the legs, but also a hole at the top of her body, so in order to mirror the male there would have to be a tube shaped item filling the hole at the top of her body, angled (pointing downwards) at 45 degrees. Yes, a cigarette is just another phallic symbol.


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Seeing a cigarette dangling from a womans lips seems to make her image complete. Its an oral gratification which looks so wonderful and warm to certain onlookers, and rather sensual. To take this to another level, the male really wants to be where that cigarette is - being adsorbed and loved in the same way, and providing the same satisfaction. If we describe the process a little, perhaps you can understand the allure.

The tube inside a womans mouth acts very much like the male anatomy. Initially it dangled down rather limply from the middle of her lips, but as she desires it, the tube is lifted 45 degrees to light, and then often 90 degrees to take back into the mouth. The extended lips hold the tube in place, and warmly hold it without crushing. The cork filter speckles reminds some of the little hairs we have in those regions. As she excites the tube with a hot flame, she takes in a thick, white, creamy substance - which can trickle down her face or drift out of her mouth. She takes another drag, this time deeper, and she makes a little hollow appear in her cheeks as she pumps her prize - taking down more and more smoke. Her lips tenderly caress the tip, and her fingers stroke and brush the filter fondly, like stroking a pet lovingly.

As she continues to excite the tube, it glows red at the other end, forming a bell-shaped end, which glows and grows bigger as she smokes. The lady may even create the smooth shape by rolling the tube in an ashtray. Needless to say, she smokes and pumps her prize until she is utterly satisfied, and having had her fill, she put the tube to bed - used and spent. In this way, we can see that smoking from the centre of the mouth, with luxury and eyes closed, lost in utter pleasure, is very appealing to some of those who happen to be watching. This can be especially true if she is wearing lipstick, which leave red smears around the filter.
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In this way, we can see how the oral pleasure and satisfaction of smoking can be very alluring. It doesnt really matter so much about the womans age, her perceived level of fitness or physical beauty, or even sometimes what she is doing with it - simply the delicate art of smoking can seem gentle and luxurious - in a way the only the feminine style can do. A cigarette can enhance any womans appeal instantly, and beyond age or beauty, and sometimes even the more mature and experienced ladies can demonstrate a level of elegance and refinement that takes years of careful practice to master.

There are certain things which can enhance the experience for both the smoker and the lover of watching smoking art at play. Lipstick and makeup, long hair, colourful flowing clothing, large breasts, smiling, and with the eyes closed, but these arent necessarily needed to complete the scene. Some people think smoking from the corner of the mouth can be not as fun to watch as a deep throated central drag, and of course going back for multiple drags and holding closer to the lips or dangling is often welcome. Lots of ash can be nice, and also a side view of the tube, so that the drawing on the tube and consuming down into the body can clearly be seen. A deep voice and raspy breathing can also be attractive, although some also like coughing, sometimes this can put others off. Nobody likes to see a woman looking miserable, and sometimes smiling is enough, or even just a deep and thick mouth-full of smoke.
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Disclaimer: The text above should not be taken as 'advice', medical or otherwise. The opinions expressed in this article are those of the researcher, who has no scientific background, and the quotes used are other writers who may or may not be authentic medical practitioners. The writer of the article holds no authority, or responsibility, for your actions, and you undertake this 'advice' above at your own risk. Please do your own research and consult your doctor if you have conditions, before attempting anything.
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Post by Dan on Jul 2, 2017 23:49:12 GMT


Ok, so now we go to the practical education side, looking at this from my point of view, and based on the assumption that its mostly the males attraction to a female smoker. First of all, there no hard and fast rules. Women can be aroused by their own smoking sometimes, and this can be very stimulating the very first time she orally makes love to her favourite brand of cigarette. But as what works for one woman might not necessarily work for everyone. So the information in my first post and also here is meant to give you an idea but not necessarily the whole picture.

Each smoker has a style of their own which is absolutely unique. Most smokers have no consciousness of this very subconscious act, and they dont try to hide it. The side is more than just a woman smoking, and not every woman can do it, as most ladies you may notice out and about dont necessarily throw their heads back and gorge on the pleasure. Most women just puff on their cigs, and this is often not very seductive.
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Here we see a lady smoking while on a break. She is being filmed so perhaps she rushes her cigarette and little too fast. When this happens, the person will become light headed, and a little queasy, so will stub out their cig with still a lot left to go. But notice after a while, she goes into her own unique style - a side-of-mouth smoke with a soft draw - and its this softness which can be seductive.

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Back in the early days, it was rarer to find women who just loved to smoke. In this clip we see Danielle from the deep South, smoking a 120. There may be ads in this video because it contains the music "Turn The Page (Live) by Bob Seger & The Silver Bullet Band" - which was not an issue back then. Danielle talks about her smoking and demonstrates many lifted draws, with a smooth and a long exhale; where she likes to have her cig raised and ready for the next cheek hollowing drag.
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Again from back in the day, here is Samantha in yet another side-shot video. Here she dressed elegantly and with beautiful hair and makeup, but she doesnt like to be filmed and constantly scowls at the camera. But after a while we see her light a second 120 length smoke, and before long she is enjoying puff after puff. Going back to the cigarette and chained inhales can be seductive, and in this video it appears Samantha is not satisfied with just one drag.
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Post by Dan on Jul 6, 2017 19:44:14 GMT

I updated this page by adding more explanation after the second paragraph, and the article feels more complete now.



Post by Mike on Jul 7, 2017 5:48:00 GMT

Great explanation
Thanks a lot Dan


Post by Dan on Apr 2, 2018 16:40:08 GMT

Today I noticed that the Danielle video in the article didnt work for North America. I tried to fix it with Youtubes new song removal tool, but instead it muted her wonderful southern accept completely.

To make up for this, and to help women get a better idea of what I'm talking about, here are two more clips.

These clips were uploaded at the same time as making the article above, but were taken down. Here they are again.



Post by AusNick on Jan 18, 2019 10:42:46 GMT

G'day again Dan,

Having read and re-read this essay, it's occurred to me that you may have missed something, you've touched on it, danced around it, but it appears absent. That is, self-gratification and self-stimulation, something that many women who smoke, and the men who watch them are only dimly aware of, and I personally believe it lies at the heart of why many many women and men smoke.


Back in the day, when Vesperae Lux's forum, The Sublime Desire of Cigarette Smoking existed prior to the Boardhost purge, I coined the term Pulmonary Onanism, Pulmonary as relates to the lungs, and Onanism as relates to <auto-erotic stimulation>, and I have defined smoking thus… 'The only form of auto-erotic stimulation that a person can perform in public and not get arrested for.' That said, these days it's likely you can be arrested (or at least fined) for smoking in a public space, but I digress… To put it bluntly, the smoke caresses and massages a place the fingers cannot reach. This all came about as the result of a discussion on V's board of the lungs being an erogenous zone of the body.


Once I had this realisation, the act of smoking (or watching a lady smoke) took on added meaning. For that specific feeling of pleasure that is felt, or that someone is feeling even if they aren't aware of it.


How I believe this relates to seduction is this… people who may not even be aware of the aspect of self-stimulation of smoking, may see the obvious pleasure another person gets from repeatedly filling their lungs with smoke, and it's not from the effects of Nicotine, or the effects of that alone, and they pick up on that due to subtle traits in body language, and that's just objectively for an observer, for the person smoking, such gratification in both respects is immediate. And I think that's another reason why we chose to repeatedly fill our lungs with smoke again and again. That specific feeling of pleasure is very subtle, and so then is the seduction.


I don't know if you want to use that in your essay, but you're welcome to do so.


Nick





Post by Dan on Jan 18, 2019 17:38:47 GMT

Yes, many people find smoking arousing in the way you describe. It already feels like years since I wrote this, and it feels a bit out of date, so I may re-write it at some point. The piece is supposed to be practical demonstration with videos, but it needs to be fixed.




Post by forcedismykink on Jul 27, 2019 23:17:51 GMT

Hello Dan

Since I can remember I have always found ladies (the more dominant the better) who smoke attractive.

I am a non-smoker myself, however, the thought of meeting and dating a dominant lady smoker fascinates me. Ever so subtly, she would coerce and manipulate me into smoking, so she would no longer have to smoke alone.

Where to find a dominant smoker...
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